How beautiful are new beginnings, filled with excitement, thrill and a pinch of nervousness as you are moving towards an unknown and mysterious journey of togetherness. Wedding, which opens the door for a brand new life, will bring some major as well as minor changes in your social, intellectual and personal life no matter how prepared you are! These changes will be witnessed even by those couples who tied their knot with love marriage. How you adapt to these changes will determine the direction of your future bond. So be relaxed and accept the changes as they come along.
You might know this but the moment you walk down the aisle you will suddenly start feeling that weight of being committed to only one person for your lifetime. This might seem scary at first but you will soon love the idea of spending the rest of your life with someone who makes you feel alive and happy.
In-laws' relationships are unique as they are based on marriage and not a direct blood relation. You might already have developed a perception about your in-laws, thanks to the ever growing soap operas on television. Only after marriage will you know whether your sensory experience is right or not,there's no other way. The whole relationship will depend on your and your in-laws' nature. So be positive and make an effort to build good bonds with your in-laws. Initially you will face some difficulty, but gradually you will learn.
This might surprise you! You will enjoy those tiny moments of shared laughs and conversations more than anything else where you both together will do some household work. These joint jiffy will help in making the bonds between the couples much more stronger. You will have your shared moments of fury as well but at the end you will cherish all these little things between you and your partner.
With every little moment spent with your spouse you will slowly learn the best and worst sides of your spouse. You will learn that they feel low too and when they will speak about their insecurities they will feel vulnerable too and so will you, when you will share your deepest secrets that you dared not to tell anyone. Sharing such intricate details with your better half about yourself will give you a sense of freedom. And this is how you will develop trust; and bonds based on trust are unbreakable.
This is the age where people jump from one relationship to another within no time. People find their so-called 'date' with a single right swipe. So naturally it is hard to believe that you will stick to only one relationship; as the community that you are living in takes your relationships for granted, but, the moment you get married people around you will start taking your relationship seriously. Society has more respect for someone who is mature enough to take a life long promise of commitment with a single person.
Not only society but you yourself will become more conscious after marriage. At the beginning it will become hard to adapt but soon you will notice little changes from the inside. For instance, you will start caring for your consort and sacrificing a few things yourself. Self control, stability and forgiveness is something that you will develop over the course of marriage. You will always consider their likes and dislikes. You will try your best to make them happy and this is when you will truly feel satisfied.
Forget those days when you'd spend your entire monthly earning on drinks, parties and mindless shopping. With marriage you will have a sense of responsibility towards your future and this is when you will learn the art of spending wisely. You might want to start a family so you will cut expenses and start saving for a big house, children's education and the list will go on.
Entering this new bond of marriage will make you hang out less with your single friends. You will look differently at them after marriage, they will be less relatable to you thereby making you less likely to go out with them. Even so you will make new couple friends with whom you will be capable of relating on a personal level.
You will appreciate spending weekends at home with a more relaxed plan of watching a movie sitting on your couch or cleaning the house while listening to music. You might prefer to cook a nice brunch together. Whatever it will be, at the end of the day you will spend this 'mini-vacation from work' at home.
Whether you like to spend a whole day in a spa or taking yourself on a date as a Me Time, it is always relaxing and refreshing. It will be more difficult for you to squeeze your Me Time for yourself after marriage as it will bring a companion in your life with whom you'll spend most of your time, either visiting your family or going shopping. You will enjoy the initial stages but at one point you will feel like spending some time with yourself and it's okay to feel this way. You will gradually get accustomed to spending time with your loved one. You will learn that they genuinely complete you and soon you'll be more likely to enjoy spending the time with your other half rather than spending it alone.
Being married to the right person is the most priceless feeling you will ever get in your life. You will have lots of 'firsts' together and you will enjoy the process of discovering your spouse on a more personal level. You will learn to embrace the imperfections of your spouse and appreciate the time invested in each other. You both will celebrate each other's success and lift each other when one of you falls. A commitment for a lifetime with a strong bond and no secrets will keep you both growing and glowing.
